first crush?

[Delthion]

Hm. I'm not sure how to define 'love,' how to define 'like,' or how to define 'crush.' I'm not sure what other people feel under certain cirumstances, and how they describe it, so I really can't be sure.

The way I would described it is that,, I genuinally care about the person I "like", and that I honestly feel exited (in a nervous type of way) when I am around her. I would do anything she wanted me to do, even if she wanted me to just not be around her: that's really how much I care and, definitively, love her.

Hm. I wish I could mind meld or something, then I could remember other's subjective experiences and emotions. That would make so many things so much easier.

And creepier...

Does actually thinking that you like everything about your crush ship you with the latter option? Because I've thought that before.
But I just try to maintain a friendship with my crush. After all, I won't be getting married for at least ten years.

Hm. I'm not sure how to define 'love,' how to define 'like,' or how to define 'crush.' I'm not sure what other people feel under certain cirumstances, and how they describe it, so I really can't be sure.

The way I would described it is that,, I genuinally care about the person I "like", and that I honestly feel exited (in a nervous type of way) when I am around her. I would do anything she wanted me to do, even if she wanted me to just not be around her: that's really how much I care and, definitively, love her.

Yup, I feel the same way.

I try to do the same thing...

[Søren]

Hm. I'm not sure how to define 'love,' how to define 'like,' or how to define 'crush.' I'm not sure what other people feel under certain cirumstances, and how they describe it, so I really can't be sure.

I would say a crush is simply infatuation. "Liking" someone would be slightly more, if not the same as infatuation. Love is almost obvious: the feeling of wanting to spend every waking moment with someone for the rest of your life, and willing to end that life for someone.

[Delthion]

Yes, basically...

[Ungatt Trunn]

Hm. I'm not sure how to define 'love,' how to define 'like,' or how to define 'crush.' I'm not sure what other people feel under certain cirumstances, and how they describe it, so I really can't be sure.

I would say a crush is simply infatuation. "Liking" someone would be slightly more, if not the same as infatuation. Love is almost obvious: the feeling of wanting to spend every waking moment with someone for the rest of your life, and willing to end that life for someone.

Yes, that is love for me.

[Delthion]

OK...now what?

[BlueRose]

Nicercy

[Rusvul]

Does actually thinking that you like everything about your crush ship you with the latter option? Because I've thought that before.
But I just try to maintain a friendship with my crush. After all, I won't be getting married for at least ten years.

Hmm... Are you implying that caring about someone is meaningless unless you marry them?

And no, I don't mean mind meld in a creepy way.

[Ungatt Trunn]

OK...now what?

Um... sleeping? xD

[Maudie]

Does actually thinking that you like everything about your crush ship you with the latter option? Because I've thought that before.
But I just try to maintain a friendship with my crush. After all, I won't be getting married for at least ten years.

Hmm... Are you implying that caring about someone is meaningless unless you marry them?

And no, I don't mean mind meld in a creepy way.

No. I'm saying that romantic relationships don't need to be part of my life at this point, so I don't need to try and develop them. That would be holding myself back because it is a waste of time and effort.

[Jetthebinturong]

I think my feelings for my crush border on love, which is frustrating. I wish I could do the Kirito thing and just choose to destroy all of my emotions.

I don't actually by the way, that would make life suck

[BlueRose]

I agree with Mask.


Valdangelo

[Rusvul]

Hm. Okay. That makes sense.

[Jetthebinturong]

I agree with Mask.


Valdangelo

Nothing will ever break my Solangelo ship but Valdangelo is pretty good

[BlueRose]

You know me, I ship Solangelo too.

[Delthion]

Does actually thinking that you like everything about your crush ship you with the latter option? Because I've thought that before.
But I just try to maintain a friendship with my crush. After all, I won't be getting married for at least ten years.

Hmm... Are you implying that caring about someone is meaningless unless you marry them?

And no, I don't mean mind meld in a creepy way.

No. I'm saying that romantic relationships don't need to be part of my life at this point, so I don't need to try and develop them. That would be holding myself back because it is a waste of time and effort.

Agreed...